‘Trauma is Ubiquitous’

Trauma is everywhere. Look closer, as Besser Van Der Kolk suggests in the video below (only about 8 mins long). Contrary to old popular beliefs, a lot of people have experienced a (or a number of) traumatic events and experience the consequences of it. Sometimes, people do not even know that this is the case.Continue reading “‘Trauma is Ubiquitous’”

The Soldier Mode

Schema Therapy is a well established, evidenced-based Psychological Therapy for long-term and complex difficulties, including interpersonal challenges and emotional dysregulation. It is highly effective, makes intuitive sense to people when introduced to it, albeit quite demanding. Hence it is not a first line of treatment usually. People easily start making sense of Schemas and modesContinue reading “The Soldier Mode”

The Power of Compassion

‘What exactly is compassion then’, is a question I have faced a few times by clients. Paul Gilbert, the author of ‘The Compassionate Mind’, offers the following definition: ‘Compassion can be defined as behaviour that aims to nurture, look after, teach, guide, mentor, soothe, protect, offer feelings of acceptance and belonging – in order toContinue reading “The Power of Compassion”